Melvin, I'm sure rank this as his number 1 fear.
For me, I have this fear as well but all along I know it's not my greatest nightmare. Somehow, I couldn't figure out what was my and most men or women's greatest fear.
Until today!
I was on train back home when I heard someone cried. It was a baby's cries.
I saw there was 3 women who took care of the baby cried.

Lady in pink was seen fanning the baby, the lady in the middle was feeding and the lady in orange was trying to make face just to please the baby.
A baby's cry is louder than a chainsaw at arm's length and baby can cry for so long and make any adult nervous. The screaming siren sound coming from their whining-crying babies....ouch will make men and women go down on their knee to beg if necessary if this will make babies stop crying.
Once babies started screaming, your mind goes mind. You have no control whatsoever except to do what in your power to please. You can't talk back and basically their cries will wreck and tear down any mental strength you might have. The best part it applied to women as well.
Tell me, is this not men's greatest fear?
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